We’re back after a three week trip to India. As always, it lifted our spirits to be home, meet family and friends, and participate in the rituals of daily life in India.
Bangalore is evolving strangely. Some parts seem to be caught in a time warp while others have thundered on to modernity. The populace doesn’t know what to make of it. I saw people on scooters trying to talk with cell phone squooshed between ear and shoulder, people using modern parking lots with no idea of parking lot etiquette (yes, there is such a thing)….I could go on, but basically, no one knows quite how to use the shiny newness of international Bangalore.
Some things are reassuringly the same. A Bajaj scooter can still comfortably carry 3 adults and 2 children. College students still congregate a Brahmin’s Coffee Bar which had maintained it’s high standard of idly-vada-khara bath for as long as I can remember. Cars will still honk furiously at an errant cow on the road, but won’t move until the cow has passed. Temples smell the same and the pujaris look the same (why wouldn’t they?). The Infant Jesus church has still the power to move me (and I’m as un-religious as they come). The paddy fields glow impossibly green on the way to Mysore, with Garudas circling over them.
There’s also the new and exciting Bangalore, the Bangalore of possibility where wonderful things are always around the corner. As a provider of services to the world, Bangalore has been serviced. It is if possible, more diverse than it was. There’s more money, more exposure, more awareness of what it means to be Indian and otherwise.
We did a small trip to Shivanasamudra to see the falls. We rattled along for 3 and a half hours on a road that was more pot-hole than tar, gazed at the falls for 15 minutes and headed home. The falls were spectacular; well worth the bone shaking journey. I noticed that most of the visible change was limited to Bangalore. The small towns along our way (Kanakpura, Kollegal, Malavalli) hadn’t changed outwardly. They still had long, narrow streets flanked by slanting houses. Very few restaurants were to be found. The changes were more subtle - a tea stall owner carrying a cell phone or “Noodals or Fride Rice” on the menu of the little eatery we lunched at. Change is drifting sparsely to these little places. Maybe nothing will happen here until Bangalore bloats and bursts; it’s frayed infrastructure unable to contain the enormous influx of people.
As always, I ate like a pig. Bangalore is meant for eating out in. Stuck to my parents like a leech because I didn’t want to miss out on a single moment with them. Shopped like a maniac - most of my wardrobe is India-bought now (so far I’m a maniacal pig-leech, if you please). Met up with old friends, and it was as if we’d never been apart. Lovely.
It’s back to work now, with memories of my trip to warm me.
Happy New Year, all.
Sunil’s side:
We started off the trip with the wierdest airline boarding system we have ever seen. On Singapore airlines at SFO they simply made a boarding announcement and people started lining up in a “Q”. I had seen the same thing with Catahy Pacific in summer and knew that if we patiently waited for them to call our seat nos then we would be the last to board with no place to stow away our hand carry. They followed this system consistently throughout the trip and yet every flight took off on time despite this rather chaotic boarding scheme. The flights were excellent though, their in-flight amenities are amazing, lots of leg room too. In fact there was so much leg room that there was an actual sign asking people to not sleep on the floor, hmmm, must be a common problem!!
We spent a day in Singapore en route to India. It was my first time in a country other than India/USA/Canada and I was excited. But Singapore was strangely disappointing. There was no quaintness or cultural uniqueness to it and felt just like the US, a melting pot of different ethnicities, yet somehow very……sombre? And btw, you cant chew gum in Singapore and its also difficult if you are named Jai, since there is no jay-walking allowed!!
We spent 4 days in Bombay. This time we did manage to visit South Bombay and Teju finally saw Haji Ali, Gateway of India and Victoria Terminus. We did also did the boat ride from Gateway which allowed us to get a pretty decent view of the Taj with the Gateway in its foreground. A trip to Montegars brought back lots of memories and was the “high” light of the day (pun intended) for me. Teju also got to experience first hand the adventure of getting off a crowded suburban train at rush hour. What is it like you ask? Well imagine trying to get into Walmart during Thanksgiving morning, add a little more sweat, grime and BO (well depends on which Walmart you go to), and you will be half way there. Did a bit of shopping in Bombay as well and also managed to visit some of my favorite restaurants including Yoko’s Sizzlers and Gajalee. However, street food still rules in Bombay and we fulfilled some of the requisites like gorging on Swami’s Bhel, Alberts sandwich and Jai Jawan’s fried fish.
I have now gotten used to the new bipolar Bombay, a confusing mix of western influences trying to coexist with Indian attitudes. The disparity between the haves and have-nots keeps getting wider and it amazed me just how rich and how poor people can get.I think you get a very stark view of both ends of the spectrum in Bombay more than any in other city.
We all (Mom, Sis, Teju and myself) left for Bangalore on Jan 2nd. Teju spent time with her parents while Mom, Sis and I stayed at Mom’s brothers (Venumman) place. Bangalore has changed, no longer the laid back city that I had first visited in 1991, it is now a very cosmopolitan city but bursting at its seams. The growth of the city has unfortunately outpaced the infrastructure and in typical fashion the government has no clue how to solve it and when it does try people like Gowda throw a wrench into the plans.
We did a small 2 day trip to the cities of Bellur, Halebid and Shravanabelagola. One of the first things that stood out while viewing the magnificient monuments and temples was the attention to detail that the artisans gave to their work. Each sculpture at Bellur and Halebid was unique in some way and each had its own tale to narrate. Credit must be given to the Archaeological society of India for maintaining their pristine attributes. I was a little put off by some film shooting that was going on inside the temple at Bellur. They had occupied one side of the main temple and wouldnt allow the public to enter that area while shooting was going on. The scene involved a dance with a flock of oval shaped feminine looking individuals undulating their ample midriffs while exposing their armpits at the same time (try to picture that!!).
Bangalore was also memorable for the amount of shopping that we did there and I must admit that Bangalore easily surpasses Bombay in the shopping choices available. Forum and Central are easily international quality and people obviously have plenty of money to spend there. However, I think the most fun we had shopping was when we stopped at the exhibition of Channapatna wooden toys outside Cauvery. These wooden toys are all hand made and are coloured with vegetable oil based colours. The artisans put a lot of thought and skill into the items they craft which include simple spinning tops, yo-yo’s, racket-making spinners, toy trains, baby cradles and a host of other unique pieces.
The big problem I noticed in India is that people have accepted modern facilites and take full advantage of them with no idea of how to use them in a socially responsible or civic manner. Examples of these abound from using cell phones in movie halls to not following basic parking etiquette while driving a spanking new Honda. But that seems to be a common recurring theme all over India, accept the glitzy, glamorous western conveniences but lets not bother with the basic considerations to society that using them would entail.
As is normal with all trips to India, this one also got over too quickly. This one was different from the previous trips because I think for the first time I started noticing the positive effects of globalization in India. And I dont mean the fancy shopping malls or the spanking new cars, that had started a while back. What I am referring to are the opportunities that the younger educated generation now has and they seem to have the confidence to make use of it. However, I did feel like there are two parallel worlds coexisting in India, one world that seems to effortlessly deal with the changes thrown at them everyday, and the other world that seems to be keep getting weighed down by those same changes. Hopefully they will merge soon and hopefully we will be over there when it happens.